UPDATE: From your comments, I have tried downgrading to 4.0.3 and update OTA. It doesn't seem to work. Therefore please update your Xperia the old-fashioned way: PC Companion/ Sony Ericsson Update Service.
Hi all,
Today I have just got the anticipated ICS 4.0.4, aka 4.1.B.0.431 in Singapore
I'm not alone either. (India has also gotten the update)
Please check the SI numbers located in the forum. However, you might get this:
Therefore, instead of using the PC Companion OR The Sony Ericsson Update Service, I'd like to suggest using the preinstalled Update Service in your Xperia. Of course, you will get the followig:
Refresh the application (Options>Refresh)
You should find the update under System.
Click it to download the 20MB update and install.
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Note: I have been receiving some problems about the update from other users, so I suggest that you try this:
Unroot your phone (Go to PCC>Update SW>Repair phone)
Switch to WiFi (3G is unstable)
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If all else fails, search for the 4.0.4 XDA-based rom for Neo V. You'll need to root and unlock bootloader first.
WARNING: XDA's rom is a bit unstable too, so it is recommended that you wait.
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First known error in 4.0.4:
LOUD, INAUDIBLE SOUND WHEN PERFORMING SCREENSHOTS.
video lag still persists 
... and phone cant be repaired using pcc after the update .. pcc says it doesnt have the software needed for the phone ... am i th e only one with this problem ?
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