Hi @LindaHC, welcome to our forum!
I'm afraid that there is no setting in the device that lets you adjust the pattern, sensitivity or volume of the vibration. I can however see how this can be a very useful setting to have so I will make sure to forward this internally as user feedback! 
Do note that I can't make any promises that this will be implemented.
I hope that answers your question!
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