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You should have a WiFi icon in the status bar if you are connected to a Wi-Fi network.
Are you sure that you are connected to a network? Go to settings > Wi-Fi to see what it says under your network. Perhaps you could upload a screenshot on this menu?
http://talk.sonymobile.com/t5/FAQ/How-to-take-a-screenshot/m-p/348046#U348046